7 Things to Consider Before a Divorce in Phoenix
We’ve compiled a list of seven things to consider if you’re contemplating filing for divorce in Phoenix.
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Divorce is a difficult decision that can be overwhelming and intimidating. At Colton Family Law, our focus is taking one step at a time. We’ve compiled a list of seven things to consider if you’re contemplating filing for divorce in Phoenix. These considerations will help you navigate the divorce process and make the best decisions for you and your family.
Finances.
Determine your and your spouse’s monthly income. Then, make a list of all your expenses, including potential future expenses associated with living in two separate households and attorney fees. Put together a plan for how these expenses will be paid during the divorce proceedings and afterward
Living situation in Phoenix.
Your living situation during a divorce proceeding can be complex and stressful. For instance, if you own your home or have a lengthy rental lease, consider whether it’s realistic for you and your spouse to continue living together during the proceedings. There could be safety concerns with that arrangement. Even if there are no immediate safety concerns, a lengthy divorce proceeding may still lead to increased tension and stress. Having a safe space during this time is very important.
That said, if you have children with your spouse, consider whether it is possible for you and your spouse to continue to live near one another. Implementing a parenting time schedule where parties live more than 30 minutes apart can be hard on your kids.
Documents.
This is the time to take inventory and begin gathering all your documents. Make a complete list of all your assets and debts, including those that may only be in your name or your spouse’s name. Gather tax returns and associated tax documents like 1099s and W-2s to show proof of income. Collect profit and loss statements and business banking records if you or your spouse are self-employed or own a business. You will also need deeds and titles for any asset you own. In addition, you will need at least six months of personal bank records, credit card statements, retirement statements, investment accounts, and proof of any other asset you or your spouse may own. The more you have here, the better, and it takes time, so working on gathering these documents early in the process is a good way to get a head start.
Personal Information.
Think about all of the shared information that occurs during a marriage. Now is the time to consider changing passwords to various accounts, such as social media accounts. However, be careful here—changing passwords to community financial accounts could make it look like you are trying to hide assets and could create more friction between you and your spouse.
Your kids.
Your kids will need a lot of support during this time of transition, so you’ll want to make sure you have a solid plan in place for them. Consider what parenting plan would work best for your children and their well-being. If possible, consider a parenting time schedule that allows them to feel safe and comfortable while still allowing you and your spouse meaningful time to engage with them. Not sure of your options for a parenting plan? We can help you navigate that.
Do not involve your kids in any conflict you may have with your spouse. During the divorce, they are going to be experiencing many of their own emotions—they should not have to babysit their parents’ emotions as well.
Emotional Support.
Divorce is stressful and exhausting. Surround yourself with positive influences, such as family and friends. In most cases, talking to a therapist can also be extremely beneficial. Emotional well-being is crucial for making sound decisions during your divorce. Now is a good time to think about who your support system is going to be and reach out to potential therapists.
Talk to an Attorney.
Consider talking to a qualified Phoenix attorney early on in the process. An attorney will carefully explain your rights and help you make informed decisions. An early discussion with a Phoenix attorney will help prepare you for the legal landscape so you can prepare accordingly and have some peace of mind.